Amrita - The Divine Nectar: Exploring Female Ejaculation

by Caroline Muir

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Amrita is liquid energy.

Anyone can “ejaculate,” or “squirt,” but the goddess in women releases her amrita. The stories that come from ancient Tantra and the holy books of several thousand years past support this, along with the vast subject of sacred sexuality, of which I am a longtime teacher and practitioner. The name in Sanscrit for the female ejaculate is “amrita,” which means “divine nectar.” For this reason I refer to this experience, which I only first heard of twenty years ago in my early forties, as “releasing amrita.”

As a female, I embody the divine, and I clearly honor amrita as a divine expression of the feminine. Videos that purport to show how females can ejaculate are a turn-off to me. Please, those of you with the refinement to keep the sacred intact, remember, there is power in language! Join with me in this little game of consciousness as I describe to you the majestic connection I feel to spirit, to myself, to my partner, and to Life while releasing my amrita.

“It must be pee!” the disbelieving exclaim. “It must be pee!” the uninformed lovers conclude. But the millions of women, who for centuries have experienced the sexual-spiritual heights in releasing their amrita, know it is not pee that can come forth from them in quantity during orgasm. It is divine nectar.

In the Western world there is a tendency to reduce profound spiritual experience to scientific explanation. The true nature of these sacred waters is more metaphysical than physical. It often feels as though the “energy” of amrita is being released, with no liquid content.

How could this be proven or explained to the scientist in the lab?

There is a commonly held belief that something other than God must be responsible for this potentially profound experience of pleasure - cups of warm clear liquid gushing or spraying out of the female’s genital area (specifically her urinary opening), or meatus. Can we allow that the Goddess herself might take great joy in riding the waves of pleasure, which often accompany a release of amrita? In my experience as a goddess of conscious lovemaking, the words that escape my lips during high states of arousal and orgasm are “Oh my God! Oh my God!” Yet when my amrita flows I experience the most profound connection to the Feminine. I often hear myself exclaiming as I’m flowing, “Thank you Goddess, Thank you, Mother, Thank you Spirit, Thank you, Thank you, Thank you...”

I have taught and exhibited for many women how this feels and looks for me (see the DVD “Secrets of Female Sexual Ecstasy”). This teaching gives people something to emulate, as the partner involved can also ride this huge wave of bliss and help carry the woman further into the fullness of the experience.

Every woman experiences her sexual response somewhat differently, so each must find her own expression in these times of surrender. This release may not feel typically orgasmic. It can go unnoticed by some. The awareness and experience of amrita depends on the level of a woman’s awakened sensitivity to her body.

How do we allow the sacred to enter into this experience? It’s a flip of the switch (of consciousness, that is!). The energy is transmittable. Much depends on a woman’s openness, sense of safety, and, often, spiritual connection to herself or her partner or close friend. I have seen women start the flow of amrita simply by being in the company of another woman releasing. I have experienced holding the hand of a dear friend while I was receiving sacred spot massage, and as my amrita flowed, hers released with such a force it splashed the wall eight feet from the bed!

Once a woman’s “channels” are open she can easily release her sacred waters through self-pleasuring. Her time alone becomes not only fun and pleasurable, but gives her direct connection to her own divinity, her own power, to the goddess within her essence. Her nectar then flows from heaven to earth, a gift to the earth mother herself. She might “offer” this gift of liquid energy to her loved ones or to her own personal belief of what spirit is to her. She does this by joining her consciousness to her amrita, and actually “imagines” giving this medicine where she wills it to go.

We use our power of intention to imprint our amrita. This requires creative visualization, a focused mind, and deep, slow breathing. It is by this “knowing” that our natural body fluids become a “medicine” for healing and high magic. Thus, a woman accesses her own spiritual priestess to emerge during this pleasurable event.

Much more is taught about this phenomenon in our bodies in the Divine Feminine Mystery School to help further understanding and deepen people’s experience of it.

For me, amrita is one of the great wonders of the world. People have tried to measure it, examine it, explain it, figure it out. There is no way to measure, or explain, the divine.

Your body is your laboratory, and you, as a woman, have the opportunity to claim your potential and your birthright as a divine mystery.

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Woman on Top!

by Joan Heartfield, Ph.D.

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Q. It's nice that this world is becoming more acceptable to sexuality. It is in need of some serious awakening indeed!!

I need to learn how to be a better lover while “on top.” I seem to have built up some kind of shyness/feeling incapable towards that position, which is REALLY LAME! What works? ~Female, U.S.

I hear your frustration at not being able to enjoy one of our most natural positions. Men generally love having the woman on top, especially if she if enjoying herself. What men are hungry for is to see a woman in ecstasy, so instead of focusing on your shyness, start focusing on increasing your pleasure.

If it helps to close your eyes to begin with, do that, and focus on the sensation in your pussy, in Sanskrit called yoni -- your ‘sacred space’ -- as well as on your pearl, your clitoris. Start slow and move your body around. Find the position that feels the best to you and really get into enjoying the pleasurable feelings.

Then open your eyes and notice how happy this makes your partner.

Another delightful experience is to think of dancing on your partner’s penis (lingam), his ‘wand of light’. Put on some great music that rocks you and let your body move to the beat.

Most of all play and have fun. The best sex is when you can tap into your erotic innocence as well as your pleasure. When that is also hooked up to your heart and your consciousness, watch out. You’ll not only have the time of your life, you’ll have your partner just where you want him.

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Union with the Divine

by Caroline Muir & Joan Heartfield

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How do we make sense of the human experience, and inhabit our lives as fully as possible? It is at the core of all religions, the integration of inner and outer planes of existence. But how do we achieve that integration?

One of the ways is by honoring the wisdom of the Divine Feminine and experiencing balance in Eros (eroticism/intuition of the feminine) and Logos (reasoning/logic of the masculine) in our lives.

In order to weave together the aspects of our physical, passionate selves with our loving, spiritual selves, we must bring higher consciousness into the bedroom. One way to do this is to surrender to the Divine Feminine within, that place of great compassion, truth, and love - our heart of hearts. As we identify with Her, we come to a place where we begin to see the truth of who we are.

The power that lies dormant within our natural, healthy, sexual nature has the capacity to bring a type of fire into our consciousness that can be used to wake us up. Our ability to experience our essential nature is greatly enhanced when this shakti - our life force - moves up and ignites our minds.

Healing and wholeness come as we reclaim our passion from a place of inner authority. What has become mundane becomes sacred once again and we become clearer, kinder, juicier, and more joyfully alive.

Come Full Circle
Place one hand over your genitals and the other over your heart. Focus intelligent loving kindness from your heart to flow into and nurture your genitals; allow passion to flow from your genitals and revive your heart.

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Caroline Muir
Founder of Divine Feminine

Founder of the Divine Feminine - Awakened Masculine Institute, Caroline is celebrated as mother of the modern sacred-feminine movement. Her book, Tantra: The Art of Conscious Loving, co-written w/ Charles Muir, & their seminars have inspired over 100,000 readers & 25,000 students.

Joan Heartfield, Ph.D.
Director, Divine Feminine-Awakened Masculine Institute

Joan's helped thousands discover deeper meaning and vitality in their search for wholeness in a challenging world.